It's true. My kids ask to do chores. Actually, they beg to do chores. Part of it I pass off to their ages - at almost 4 and 5 1/2, helping with the housework is still fun and novel. However, their continued enthusiasm day after day I attribute to The Chore Bucket.
Simple coffee can, lightly decorated, filled with colored papers, each one listing a specific chore job. They love it! Our goal is to do it once a day, M-F, sometimes on the weekends too. They are required to do one, but almost always choose to do 2 or 3. Sometimes we have "paydays," where I pay quarters for any chores done after the initial required one. I used to have cards in the bucket that said "Free Day," but I had to take them out because my kids actually cried if they pulled that card. What?
I presented this at a Kindergarten Readiness workshop at my girls' preschool. It was one of many ideas for encouraging independence, teamwork, initiative, etc. Many families at our school went home and made their own chore buckets and have been enjoying the same success with eager helpers!
Here are the chores we currently have in our bucket. Sometimes I add new ones, or take ones out that don't seem to be working.
- dust a room of your choice
- tidy the videos & dust the TV area
- help with laundry
- clean the bedroom & playroom closet mirrors
- clean the art table
- find 10 things to put away
- dust the living room
- look through a cookbook and choose a recipe for later in the week
- tidy the bookshelves
- clean off the refrigerator
- tidy bathroom counter and wipe down
- check snack cabinet and tell mom/dad what to add to list
- put away all the stuff on the front benches plus shoes
- help mom change the sheets on your bed
- wipe down the kitchen table and chairs
- help with dishes
- mom's choice
Keep in mind, they do not to these chores perfectly, but I do expect them to take their time and do a good job. If you have older kids, you could obviously use more complicated chores. The other plus is that I feel like I have to be a good role model and do my own chores while they are working on theirs. The girls have also decided to make a special chore bucket for chores they like to do with Daddy. It has things in it like sweep the front sidewalk, pull 10 weeds, help in the garage, fill the bird feeder, etc.
Hope you have a bit of fun doing chores! :)
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Thanks for the list of chores little kids can help do! My older two daughters are 6 and 4 and I tend to think they are too little to help out. I will be making a chore bucket!
Posted by: Amy R. | June 11, 2008 at 06:51 PM
I've been trying to come up with age appropriate/fun tasks for my son. This is one of those "why didn't I think of doing this" things! :) Thank you - thank you!!
Posted by: Kim F. | June 12, 2008 at 11:54 AM
I'm totally going to steal this idea! I have a dickens of a time trying to get my 6yo dd to do chores. I bet this will do the trick. It has the element of a game to it. Who doesn't love a game. I should do this for myself too ;)
Posted by: Slawebbsl | June 12, 2008 at 12:26 PM
love this idea!
Posted by: chickadee | June 18, 2008 at 03:48 PM
Wow, this is a great idea, I am going to try this with my children.
Posted by: Donna | June 20, 2008 at 04:31 AM